I met Glenn at the first Evecon, and thereby discovered this wonderful nest of worthwhile people who lived near me. Glenn and I have had many adventures together, including sometimes dating the same people. Even though we don't see each other as often any more, every time we see each other, we immediately have a good time and can still read each others' minds, understand obscure jokes, and generally have a continuous if discontiguous relationship.
Glenn's living in Baltimore, which is close enough to see each other regularly, even though I'm often too lame to journey up there.
Cindy was a distractingly attractive person who hung out with the medievalists. At one point, I aquired a really lovely picture of her. Later, she started dating David Vierling and I got the picture framed and made him a gift of it. They eventually drifted apart, and I subsequently lost touch with Cindy.
Got a pointer from a mutual friend, she's married now and still in the RenFair clothing biz.
University of Maryland Student Union, 1983
I met Jeanneane whilst hanging out with the University of Maryland medievalists back in the early 1980s. I was quite attracted to her, but she was dating a schmuck at the time and wasn't interested. One day she walked up to me and said "Guess What!". I said "You realized your boyfriend was a schmuck, dumped him, and now you want to go out with me?". Turns out I was right. We dated for a while and had lots of fun, but for various reasons we eventually went our separate ways. Quite a while later, Jeanneane approached me in my capacity as a reverend, and asked me to marry her (to Dennis). I agreed, and we had a lovely wedding, though her parents had some weird memories of me that they had trouble reconciling with my guise as religious official. Sadly, eventually the marriage fell apart, and then we had time to get to know each other again.
getting kissed by Barbara Epstein, 1985
We met at a party, and were mutually enchanted. We dated for a while, and it was magical. We'd just know when each other was nearby -- one time, she was riding with a friend, and she mentioned that it felt like I was near, even though I was supposed to be at work that day. Just then, I crested a hill and drove by. She's a musician, and one day when I came to visit, she had an intricate piece of sheet music on her piano. Normally, I can pick out a tune and chords, but I'm no pianist. But this time, the muse was with me, and I sight-read a couple of pages and played them cold. She was thrilled, and I'm not sure if she ever quite believed that I can't normally play like that. Eventually, she told me her busy schedule didn't leave her enough time for our relationship. Shortly thereafter, we lost touch. When I went to visit, her house had been sold (her dad was in the military). I asked around, and rumour was that she had moved to Ohio, gotten in a bad/obsessive relationship, and had instructed people not to give out her whereabouts.
Finally got in touch with Suzan Stacey, and found she's married now, and her married name and where they're living. Next is to call information and get the number and say hi.
Several of my friends would be temporary denizens of a group house generally known as the House of Torpor. Jaki also lived there, and as I spent quite some time there, we became friends. Then, while building my house, I ran out of time on my lease, leaving me effectively homeless for a while, so I spent nights in the Torpor Chamber (basement) for a couple of months. Jaki came out and spent a night at the house when construction had made it more livable.
We ran into each other a couple of times, then I didn't see her for quite a while. Then I ran into her at a con (and we shared a really nice kiss) and found out she'd been living in New York for a while, but now was living in the Baltimore area.
I met Ed when I was dating Karen Dresser, and saw more of him when I was dating Elizabeth Ryan, sometimes I'd go up to visit Elizabeth and end up spending quite a bit of my time chatting with Ed. We've pretty much kept in touch ever since.
Newton was another of the crazies hanging out with the medievalists. We shared interests in art, music, and anime. We hung out a lot while we were both attending the University of Maryland. Then we sort of lost touch.
I saw some art with Newton's name on it at the World Science Fiction Convention in 2001. I asked at the dealers representing him, but they were in a silly mood and weren't much help. But I kept my eye out, and eventually saw him, off chatting with one of the other dealers. I ended up having a wonderful conversation with him and another artist. He's living in Utah, the result of a contract that went sour. He's hoping to escape to somewhere more civilized when he can. We exchanged contact information and keep in touch now.
I met Jeff through his brother John Hammel. Their whole family was cool. Originally they lived in Bowie, MD, then moved out to Shenandoah, VA. Jeff was a cheerfully silly person.
Living in Prescott, AZ
John was one of the Bowie crowd, a fun person, nice as the day is long, and a talented artist.
Living in Durango, CO.
Chris was older than the other Hammel kids, so I didn't get to know him when they lived in Bowie. I got to know him when I was dating his sister Susan Hammel. A really nice, laid-back sort of guy, we'd end up following Susan around and making sure she stayed (mostly) out of trouble.
Married and living in Springfield, VA
Maug and I met in our high school science fiction club. The nickname arose from a typo of "Haug", and basically stuck. Having similar appetites for mayhem and generally being social outcasts at the time, we quickly became close friends. We helped run local science fiction conventions, worked on each others' cars, built and modified musical instruments, blew things up, attempted to start a band, and many other pursuits. I was best man at his wedding.
We still see each other, trade email, and otherwise keep in touch.
medieval dance practice, circa 1980
Sue is this delightful person, who manages to contain a whole lot of personality and caring in a deceptively small package. When Sue hugs you, you really get hugged.
Sue actually tracked me down in 1998 or so, and we traded some email. I lost her address in a disk crash, but fortunately, she continued to keep in touch.
I first met Susan on Hallowe'en in Bowie when she was 12. An adorable figure in a hooded cape with a candle, I could see she would be an interesting person (her whole family is cool). So I asked her out, eight years hence. While we didn't end up making that date, we did stay in touch, and became good friends. We eventually lost touch for quite a while, but her husband tripped over this page on a web search and she emailed me.
Married, two kids, living in Shenandoah, VA.
We met at a con in 1983 and found we quite enjoyed each other, so we went to Pennsic Wars together, and spent most of the time together. We saw each other from time to time after that, but eventually drifted apart.
A mutual friend sent me her email address, and we're in touch again. She's alive and well, whee!
Diane and I have known each other, on and off, for quite some time.
I ran into Diane at a con, and she gave me her contact information.
World Science Fiction Convention, Baltimore, MD, 1983
I first knew Andy's father Chesley, from the Explorer Scouts (Post 1275). Later, Andy started hanging out with John Cooper and the gang. Andy also drew Emperor Of The Universe comix, while hanging out with the guys at WHFS-FM.
These days, Andy designs games, details can be found on his web site
One day, my friend Glenn Arthur asked me if I could help some people make a science fiction film. They needed set pieces, lighting, some computer programming, and so forth. This sounded like fun, so I went along with it. When we got there, I was pleasantly surprised that the film crew consisted of five attractive young women. I told Glenn "You didn't tell me they were five gorgeous girls!", and he admitted "I didn't know!". Gnome was one of these people, and we hit it off immediately. We dated for a while, and had a great time. Eventually, we drifted our separate ways.
Turns out she's happily married and living in California these days.
I met Elizabeth at a con, when she'd just gotten really nastily dumped. She had it in for the whole human race, especially guys. Naturally, I was intrigued. We dated for a while, really enjoying each others' company, but never getting really serious. Eventually we drifted apart.
Currently living in Massachusetts.
http://www.apocalypse.org/~jailbait/
This is the guy I stole the idea of putting a list of folks I'm looking for on the web from.
I met Marq at this every-weekend continuing party at his dad's house. A thorougly silly guy, he was always involved in something offbeat. He and I ended up dating a lot of the same people, which led to humour more than angst.
Suzan was one of the drama club members at Bowie Senior High. She and Shelley Davis were close friends. She played a (pardon the pun) bewitching character in Bell, Book, and Candle.
I found a copy of her old phone number, and decided to give it a try. She no longer lived there, but as it happens, the house stayed in the family and her sister now lives there. Better yet, it was her sister's birthday party, and Suzan was there!
Ilana was another of the interesting people who hung out with the medievalists when I did back in the early 1980s. We knew each other, but weren't close, but Ilana is an exceptional person, and unforgettable. Years later, I met her brother, Allon Stern and eventually figured out they were related.
We saw each other at Allon's wedding and had a chance to catch up. She's married now, and went off having adventures and sailing all over the world with her husband in their houseboat. Now they're back stateside, planning their next adventure.
with Sue Isman, Building 20, NASA GSFC
I met Brian through the Explorer Scouts, and since we lived near each other and had similar interests, we got along famously. Brian has a knack for telling entertaining stories, and finding outrageous humor in many situations.
Alive and well and still living in Bowie
her parents' house, Bowie, MD, 1984
my mom's house, Bowie, MD 1984
I met Fran at the first Evecon, hanging out with Glenn Arthur and Meredith Tanner. We hit it off immediately, and began dating. We had a lot of fun together, but it was a distracting time of life for both of us. I wasn't as attentive as I should have been, and there were plenty of other volunteers. My loss.
Occasional email contact.
Lara Levin's house, Mitchellville, MD 1984
Living in Louisana.
University of Maryland Student Union, 1984
Greymail was one of the more flamboyant and fun people hanging out with the medievalists. We were always having a good time.
I see David from time to time at science fiction cons, and I have a couple of his books.
I met John when we were both working at C3/Telos. Having similar geekly interests, we spent a lot of time chatting and concocting elaborate plans for world domination. We would go out to lunch together frequently enough that the servers at the local restaurants would sometimes have our orders ready as soon as we sat down.
I ran into John in 1999 or so at Tysons Corner Mall. He said he was living in Norfolk, and I got some contact info, which somehow never made it home. Later, I got some email from him (he'd tripped across this page), so we're in touch again!
When I first met him, I somewhat resented Tom, as his good looks and charm tended to keep him in female company while I was left alone. This wasn't his fault, girls just liked him. As it happens, he didn't mind particularly if I started going out with one of the people he was dating at the time. As time went by, he and I got to know each other better, and we've been friends since the late 1980s. He no longer effects the Rathmir persona (he even offered to give me the tee shirts with the black-on-black Rathmir logo at one point), and now sells custom made fashionable clothing, lingerie, and costumes.
I see him at most of the local cons, in the dealers' room during the day selling clothing, and roaming the halls at night, showing off splendid outfits with his wife.
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